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AnonymousY U So Judgmental?
Hey people.
Let me start this by asking “Why do people judge so easily?”. Well, simply, humans are critical thinkers. We all have our own opinions, which we believe are, of course, the best and the most reasonable, Isn’t it?
So why did I decided to make a blog about this? Personally, I was judged unfairly. It was about me having a number of admirers, not bragging about that, just wanna say everything just to make these all clear. And just because I have them, they probably believe I’m some kind of a whore. Hello guys, I bet they know every single thing about me and those admirers, as if they know the reason/s why, as if they know how I really talk to them, and the best thing is, I never talked to them nor they did talked to me. :bitchplease: I was really hurt, but of course, I pretend not to care until it happened again after Valentine’s day, so I posted some status.
“Judgmental stalkers’ gonna hate. Ang masasabi ko lang, wala akong ginagawang masama at alam ng Diyos yon, alam din yon ng mga taong malalapit sakin. Marami ang napapariwara sa maling akala.”
“Paano kaya kung naging plastic at fake ako katulad nila? Siguro, magugustuhan na ako ng karamihan ng tao.”
“Kelan pa naging kakirehan ang pakikisama at hindi pagiging KJ?”
“I love you for making stronger by breaking my heart, haters. :”>”
I pasted those status for it to be easy for the readers, If you don’t care, just don’t pay another attention to that.
Another reason is that I was watching PBB last night, and of course this is about Pamu breaking up with her boyfriend because of Kevin. (Etong part na to tatagalugin/taglish ko na para feel na feel kasi ito talaga yung nag-tulak sakin para mag-sulat nito) DISCLAIMER: I am not a Pamu fan nor a Kevin-Pamu love team fan. Guys, come to think of it, kung masamang babae si Pamu, una pa lang sya na yung lumapit ng lumapit kay Kevin, but si Kevin yung lumalapit sa kanya, and I don’t think walang reason bakit hindi nya magugustuhan si Pamu kasi mabait naman at makulit (Karamihan ng lalaki ayon ang gusto), napansin ko kay Pamu na casual lang sya, hindi nya pinapakita na gustong gusto nya sa Kevin, hindi din nya pinapakita na ayaw nya kay Kevin. Sino ba naman ang babaeng katulad ni Pamu na hindi maiinlove kay Kevin, yung kahit anung itsura mo, gusto ka pa din, tapos gwapo at mabait pa. Just wanting to point out na loving someone is unstoppable, kapag nandyan na, kapag na-fall ka na, kahit anong meron yung taong yon, masama man sya o hindi, tinatanggap mo pa din sya, mahal mo pa din sya. Para sa akin, tama yung ginawa ni Pamu, compared kay Wendy. At least naging honest si Pamu, hindi nyo din masasabi kung anung gagawin nyo kapag napunta kayo sa ganoong sitwasyon. Instead of explaining my point, na hindi ko naman sure na maiintindihan nyo, I’ll just leave you guys some questions, and just take some time to answer these in your mind everytime you are about to judge someone…
In my case…
-Do you personally know me?
-Have you talked to me for about more than 24hrs or more? Cumulative. (Not talking about the stuffs you know from what I told you, alam kong makikilala mo ako hindi sa mga sinasabi ko lang, pero makikilala mo kung paano ako mag-isip, malalaman mo kung kelan ako nagsisinungaling, in short, makikilala mo ako gamit yung mga hindi ko sinasabi, *I hope you get what I said)
-Natanong mo ba yung mga nagkagusto sakin kung bakit sila nagkagusto? At natanong mo ba kung paano ko sila kausapin? Paano ko sinabi kung anung meron lang kami?
Enough of mine, yan lang naman muna ang gusto kong itanong.
In Pamu’s case…
-Do you really know her personally?
-Have you imagined being in her shoes?
-Alam nyo ba kung anong meron talaga yung boyfriend ni Pamu at sya?
-Kilala nyo na ba yung boyfriend nya?
-Hindi nyo ba naisip, bakit ganun kadali dun sa boyfriend nya? Wala ba syang iba sa labas?
-Hindi nyo ba naisip na bukod sa pagkakagusto nya kay Kevin, baka may iba pang rason na hindi lang masabi ni Pamu tungkol sa boyfriend nya?
Tinanong ko lahat ‘to, mga tanong na pabor kay Pamu, dahil ang issue lang na pinopoint ko eh yung pagiging unfair natin sa kanya. Marami tayong hindi alam na nangyayare sa kanya.
*Ginamit ko lang yung kay Pamu para maka-relate yung karamihan sa mga sinabi ko, but I’m generalizing, ginawa ko lang syang example.
And the most important of all, wag tayong mag-judge ng basta basta base lang sa mga nakikita natin. Kailangan nating iconsider lahat ng posibleng dahilan kung bakit nangyayare ang mga bagay bagay. Make your judgment 3D. I swear, you don’t want to be judge too easily din na wala man lang pali-paliwanang o wala man lang konsiderasyon lalo na sa mga pagkakataong “Getting caught in an ‘it’s not what you think it is’ situations :ifyouknowwhatimean:. Yun lang. Thank you so much for reading. God bless us all. :*
(These are all my opinions, kung ayaw nyong i-consider, doesn’t matter, I just love expressing my feelings)
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